Choosing a right school for my child stressful for child or for parents?

Selection criteria are very important.

There is a debate whether if i sent my kid to a neighbor school, will he lose out to those from the "good" school?

I understand that MOE has been sending ivy league principals and teachers to neighbor school to provide "equal opportunity" to the community.

The trouble is there are feedback that some of them are struggling because the quality of the students are also limited with quality engagement.

Then if send them to good schools then will be a competition of the "deep pockets".

haiz.. pressure of being parents.

so dunno whether to send to neighborhood school or good school??